Scribble Day 20 | How can one love & hurt the same person?

IRJ Uzma | May 21, 2011 | Comments 10

You always hurt the one you love, the one you should not hurt at all;
 You always take the sweetest rose, and crush it till the petals fall;
 You always break the kindest heart, with a hasty word you can’t recall;
 So if I broke your heart last night, it’s because I love you most of all. (The Mills Brothers)

It is easy to understand why someone who doesn’t love another person might break the heart of this person-when we do not love those who love us, we are likely to hurt them. However, the above song refers to hurting the one we do love.

How can one both love and hurt the same person?

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Uzma

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About the Author: This hardcore Leo was born in August on the 10th Day and was named by her sister as UZMA which means Great. How great I am I don’t know I just feel I am the girl next door. Stubborn yes I am very. Inquisitive and with an eternal desire to conquer the world made me move from one place to another. Finishing my mass media course I started off as a film editor, moved on to advertising and then realized my calling, R.A.D.I.O Joined the leading radio station in India – Radio Mirchi and hosted my own show called Love Shack – A place where the young could talk and discuss anything from examination to love problems to issues in friendship. But as usual destiny had a different plan for me. And me the eternal restless soul was feeling claustrophobic being limited to the city of Mumbai. I wanted to expand and make this globe my play ground. Thus was born the idea of Internet Radio. A couple of friends joined hands with me, pooled up the talent and there we were ready to rock and roll baby!

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  1. priyanka scribbles:
    May 21, 2011 at 10:23 pm

    uzma puch mat yaar jo bhi plan banaya ta sab ki vat lag gai hai
    jo dimag hata hai na………mujhe kisi kaam se ghatkopar jana tha…..n vaha pe pohoch ke pata chala aab vo kam nai karna hai…..n mujhe return aana pada……..inna gussa aya na……..n dusri baat k hum ni8 out ka plan bana rahe the….to girls mee jo frienzz hai vo natak kar rahi hai…cant come n all……to puch mat mera dimag garam hai……..aab tu kuch kar sakti hai to kar or mera dimag shant kar………………………………………………………………………………………………………..waise tujhe zyada mehnat nai karni padeeegi kyuki thodasa dimag mere dost ne already shant kar diya hai so tum bach gai ;)

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  2. priyanka scribbles:
    May 21, 2011 at 10:24 pm

    wow feels gr8 for a change m on time today :D
    wht say

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  3. Prasad scribbles:
    May 22, 2011 at 12:17 am

    Hiii Uzma….
    Ajj to maine bahot majaa kiya……
    Aaj maine apne dosto ke sath bike Lonavala-Khandala trip ki….
    Poora din bahot enjoy kiya…..

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    • IRJ Uzma scribbles:
      May 22, 2011 at 1:12 am

      wow prasad lucky boy climate kaisa hai waha par

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      • Prasad scribbles:
        May 22, 2011 at 1:41 am

        Are Uzma, Climate ekadam awsome hai vahaa…..
        Hume bahot kam dhup dekhane ko mili…..
        poore raste ghane badal chaye hue the….
        Aur upar hills pe to ekadam mast thandi thandi hawaye chal rahi thi, mumbai ki garmi ko aaj ka din bye bye tha poori tarah se………

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  4. zeenius scribbles:
    May 22, 2011 at 12:49 am

    Love hurts because the person who is feeling pained is giving everything that they possibly can to demonstrate their commitment and admiration to the one they love. When you fully open your heart up to another person, you also open yourself up to an increased chance of being hurt. Question: “Is it worth investing so much of our heart into a person?” Personally I don’t believe that we can control what we feel in our hearts and therefore every investment (in love) that is made is pure. Love hurts more immensely when the person we love feeds us love that is artificial. This sort of love is engineered in the person’s brain and delivered to deceive the person they say they love.
    The only thing that they truly love is the passion and those things that you are doing to boost their ego. The hurt that follows when love ends abruptly is immeasurable and the only way which I can explain it is to compare it to an addiction. Your heart is addicted to the person you love, because you’ve grown to love that person to the extent that you do. The memories of the places you went to and the time you spent together, the laughs you shared, the tears you cried and the intimate moments that you cherished in your mind. The good, and the not so good times in your relationship reinforced your love tremendously.
    When the person you love turns their back on your Love, without a reasonable explanation, you are left alone to fight your addiction of love, that you will crave for months or possibly years. This means that love hurts because you are addicted to the person you love.

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  5. Neil scribbles:
    May 22, 2011 at 1:31 pm

    pyar khoobsurat hai to dard Q deta hai???
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    pyar sabse khoobsurat chiz hoti hai duniya ki
    wo koi bhi chiz ho sakti hai

    for me..”har wo chiz jise paane k liye aap duniya se ladne ki himmat rakho,
    wo pyar hi hai.
    wo kuch bhi ho sakta hai jese bikes, car, books, job, business, girls etc..”

    to jab aap kisi chiz se pyar karne lago to aap us ko paane k liye paagal se ho jaate ho
    deewangi roz multiply hoti jaati hai
    jese spring ko jitna dabao wo utna hi uchalti hai wese hi pyar jab tak naa mile to hamari expectetions itni badh jaati hai ki hame khud hi nahim pata chalta k ham kya bol rahe hai
    chiodhe chidhe se ho jaate hai
    kuch achha nahi lagta
    bhale upar se lage k ham achhe hai hame khud hi nahi opata chalta hamare heart ka volcano kis level pe pahuch gaya hai
    ham bhale kis bhi chiz me baat kar rahe ho
    bol rahe hai dil k 1 kone me bas wo pyar hi cghal raha hota hai
    mind me har baat pe us pyar ko paane k dreams ideas chalte rehte hai
    fir jab ham kuch bhi karte hai to us ka effect hamare kaam pe hi hota hai
    mean aaj agar aap ko apne pyar ko paane ka mauka mila to pura din itna achha hoga k aap kisi ki badi galti ko bhi mazak samjh k bhool jate ho

    nd agar kabhi ulta ho jaaye to kisi bhi bat pe aap kisi ko bhi kuch bhi bol dete ho mind heasrt k control me aake kuch bhi react karne lag jata hai
    so pyar zarur karo

    but never allow ur heart to rule ur mind ..its very painful coz u never know the result dat wat u did in ur angerness
    love anythng madly but dont be mad..

    pyar me jhagda Q hota hai..
    y we hurt someone whom we love
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    jab koi kisi se pyar karta hai to wo bhi yehi chahta hai ki samne wala bhi use utna hi pyar kare.
    wo chahte hai samne wale bhi uske liye utna hi care kare nd dats it..

    ..expectations hurt…

    agar koi 3rd person kuch karta hai to ham ye nahi sochte

    coz ham ye jaante hai ki jab 3rd person k man me hamare liyre kuch nahi to wo Q hamare baare me soche

    but jo hame pyar karta hai wo bhi naa soche to hame ye soch soch k hurt hota hai ki ham kis se pyar karte hai wo bhi hamari har baat ka khayal raklhe
    har baar aisa nahi hota coz kabhi kabhi life me stress work realations k beech kahi na kahi har koi bore sa ho jata hai usi tension me wo apne pyar se thoda bolna bhool jate hai
    thoda romance ud jaata hai nd samne wala jo expectetions rakhta hai wo puri nahi ho paati bas

    dont take serious

    ye socho ki agar koi aapko pyar karta hai to use bhi uski feelings ko express karne ka mauka do
    ye mat socho na ki ye kyu kiya wo kyu kiya bas us pe trust rakho kyu ki agar wo tumse jyada apne kaam me busy hai to uska matlab hai wo tumhare liye hi sab kar raha hai
    us ko jaano blame mat karo

    unki aankho me apna pyar dhoondh lo
    apne aap samjh jaaoge

    aaj agar office ya work se late aaye to shak mat karo bas sach pooch lo coz agar aap shak kar k poochoge naa to unhe kabhi na kbhi tumse argument k chakkar me jhuth bolna padega …nd fir chain reaction 1 k piche 100 jhuth

    so trust is the main piller of love do not break it
    wen trust ends n\othing remains expect formalities

    and last thoda depend to ho hi jaao kabhi kabhi mujhe bahut pasand hai depend honaa

    pata hai aap jis se pyar kaete ho wo bhi jaanta hai ki aap bachhe nahi ho but use achha lagta hai ki wo aaj bhi aap se wo pyar milta hai jo kisi realaton k start me hota hai

    dont make ity habit but kabhi kqabhi uske liye depend hona bhi bahut achha hota hai
    aap apne rishte me bahut close ho jaate hai
    achha lagta hai depend hona samne wala bhi khush hota hai

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  6. shahnoor ali scribbles:
    May 23, 2011 at 12:29 am

    hi
    uzma
    kuch kahna hai mujhe apne bareme

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